Break ups are not easy to deal with. And while some heartaches go away without much ado, others just won’t. And during the course of most breakups, there’s always that phase when you just feel like the all the unnecessary drama is one huge mistake.
If you come to the conclusion that you just sent away the best thing that ever happened to you, here is some good news. Follow these 3 simple steps and you just might mend that broken relationship and win back your ex in no time.
#1. Evaluate the extent of damage.
If you want to win back your ex, one of the first things you need to do is to find out what went wrong; how, when and why. Several things could lead to a break up, some of which could be dealt with (maybe you clubbed too much) others may be a tad too difficult to fix (maybe you “accidentally” slept with his best friend, his brother and his father! You must be a busy busy girl)
Also, when you are trying to find out what went wrong, it helps to keep in mind that he may not have told you the actual reasons why he doesn’t want to make kissy faces with you anymore. So try to do your evaluation from a neutral person’s point of view. This will give you an unbiased insight into where things went wrong. Or you could enlist the help of that good friend of his who always thought you two were the best couple in town. Whichever works
#2. Maintain some distance
Everybody needs space once in a while. Although this will be very difficult to do, but if you really want your ex back, some space works wonders. The truth is being clingy sends most people running for the hills. So maintain some distance and give him time to allow any hurt feelings to simmer down first. You could use this time you glam yourself up. Get a makeover, change your wardrobe, join a gym and shed some weight. GET HOTTER. You want to be irresistible when you are trying to win him back, don’t you. Well, chances are he is probably tired of boring old you so maybe you should change up a few things. Don’t forget you take steps to change those things that pushed him away in the first place either. Shey you’ve learnt your lesson? Another reason why giving him some space is good, he just might begin to reflect on all the positive things he misses about you and all the fun times you had together. So please free the guy.
#3. Get back to doing those things that attracted him to you in the first place.
Trying to win back your ex boyfriend requires quite a lot of effort. You must be willing to put in your best effort if you truly want him back. Take some time to reflect on the things that attracted him to you in the first place. What were those things that he appreciated in you? Are those things still in place? And the things he found sexy? Did you abruptly shelve them? If you did then you might wanna get back to the person he once appreciated and got attracted to. Relationships are a constant work in progress. You want him back because he made you happy: you should return the favor. If he didnt like you walking around his house with a wrapper on your chest like his grandmother back home, then girl, you need to go out and buy or borrow some bum shorts. Maybe you stopped being fun and morphed into a nag. Nobody likes a nag. Morph back into fun girl. Everybody likes a fun girl
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